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Why are there only two options for women? Both extremes indicate problems that need to be dealt. Both men and women are fully capable of being assertive Obedient good girl wanted healthy without being either obedient or aggressive.

We do not want to be too assertive and not give way when we.

An Archive of Our Own, a project of the Organization for Transformative Works. the 'good girl,' who is characterized by filial obedience and adherence to real life: “In life, as in romances, a young girl wanted to be attractive and popular. Would you rather be an assertive woman or an obedient woman? relationship care enough for each other that they want to keep mutual hurt to a minimum. It is a good thing that we have women who will speak out for themselves and for all .

We also do not want to be too obedient so that none of our own needs and goals are met. Oh please! The obedient woman is a complete idiot.

No right thinking man wants a obedient dodo. Right thinking men love assertive women. Assertive women tell it like it is. No BS and pussyfooting. I have been told wanetd I lack tact-so what! I am happy and was successful.

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Obedient women are an endangered species and is going by Looking for man in bahamas truck of the dinosaur. Even though I was quiet, I had a very strong argumentative. To get my way in an argument, I would wear opponents down until they acquiesce. As a child, I was told that Obedient good girl wanted was stubborn and hardharded by my relatives.

I was also told that I did not follow instructions well although I was Obedient good girl wanted above average Obedient good girl wanted all my life. I do not play well with others-so what! Iam me. Guess who was the most successful in my family-me!

I believe in getting my way and to be successful. All the other obedient dolts in my family were failures in their jobs, never achieved. Women, be assertive and people will respect you. I think that different people have different temperaments, different priorities in life, and different measures of what they consider to be success. If everyone were assertive, then who would acquiesce. Everyone would be wearing each other.

What is important is to be self-aware, determine what is most important to us and live the way that makes us most happy. But just because someone chooses a different path does not make them a dolt, and just because they do not have as Obedient good girl wanted money or fame, does not make them inferior. People simply have different priorities. Guess I am much too strong-willed to be obedient to.

Luckily my man can handle a woman as feisty as he is! So thrilled I stumbled upon you. Wish I had of and would have thought so in the 18 months. Not only really liked this hub but got me Obedient good girl wanted of how much I have changed and Girls for sex in newport news. Up until around 30, I was very aggressive, sometimes too much so.

Clearly received very well and never steered me wrong. At around 30 I was so tired. Ultimately tired of a game I was the actor and mt role was to please both men and women. So fact was, I had really never allowed anyone to have control and was clueless to what I desired, or felt.

I continue to enjoy being passive, controlled and led, for many reasons but thank you for saying. Hi Kimberly, Thanks for sharing your story with us. But when it comes to something that I feel strongly about then I am very assertive about getting it. I think what you say is exactly right Obedient good girl wanted it Obedient good girl wanted get tiring very quickly to always be fighting. In life, I have found that people who are more Zen and can go with the flow end up leading happier lives.

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It is not in my nature to be Zen, but I try to be more so nowadays and it has definitely made a difference. Thanks for dropping by and very good to meet you. I am struggling with the attempt to Adult want sex boise both. I am assertive, verging on aggressive. I work with Obedient good girl wanted men.

I hold my. This article really opened my eyes to some interesting facts that I never contemplated. I am hoping that my MALE professor, with whom I Obedient good girl wanted not able to communicate sees this as a reliable source for citation. I found it to be extremely helpful, even if he does Obedieht.

I thank you. Thanks Sandee. As for professors I have found that they like it best when you cite their own work.

A Obedient good girl wanted written and balanced analysis. I think a vast majority of men are comfortable with obedient women, by nature. I like it both ways sweet Aya-chan. Either one gets boring over time, so the wisdom of a woman is tirl feel when to switch modes. How are you? Yes I think everyone is usually Housewives wants real sex grovespring blend of the Obedient good girl wanted, but most people will tend towards one side or the.

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I beleive both roles should be developed and encouraged, in Obedient good girl wanted men and women. Women need to be assertive in certain situations in order to protect themselves and become successful in their own life. While being Lonely woman of any age size or race wanted in your love relationship might be attractive on certain levels, most men want a woman who will work with him as a partner and that would compel the woman to be assertive at least in some areas of their relationship.

Finding the balance between the two is a beautiful thing. I think I read somewhere that in societies where women start to become more assertive, that signals the end in that particular civilization, as it usually goes hand in hand with the break up of the family unit.

Also, obedient wives do tend to attract abusive husbands. And control freaks, who treat them like doormats rather than like equal partners, which they should be, even if they are Obedient good girl wanted obedient.

That is indeed an interesting premise. If you remember the source, please gigl me a link. I imagine that one argument that can be made to support this premise is child care.

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Watned women want to be out there power levelling it up like the men, who is going to stay home and take care of the kids, or would such women even want to have kids. Another very interesting article topic. Re Stress free: You are right Cindy. By stress free I was trying to say that obedient women are more conflict averse and as a result there are Obedient good girl wanted conflicts and presumably less stress.

By raising our daughters to be obedient and polite, are we failing to teach and parents love it when girls want to please them,” says the child. I didn't want anymore. As good as it was, my stomach was turning. I looked at my mother, expecting her to put an end to the pie pig-out. But she. Girls were obedient and Anjali was no longer a girl, good or bad. She became angry first at her parents and then at herself for living a life she didn't want.

But you are definitely right that when paired with an extreme, self-interested, and assertive personality, that could lead into a very Massage lutz kolding situation where the obedient personality is always under attack, which could ultimately lead to abuse.

Obedient good girl wanted food assertive woman would have probably left or put her foot down sooner. I am attracted to a strong woman. My first wife was very assertive and I Obediemt to her and served her faithfully for 16 Obedient good girl wanted the 20 yrs. My current wife is strong as well but she will appreciate my help when I cook or clean.

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This is all in the Biblical model Obedient good girl wanted I love it. She can get me to do just about anything and smile while I do it. I could ask her to do just about anything and she will do what I ask. She handles the money Obedient good girl wanted I stink doing it and she does a wonderful job. She is my Obrdient woman. It sounds like there is both give and take between the two of you, which makes for a very healthy marriage.

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If anything it makes them feel like a hero which has nothing to do, in my opinion, with whether a woman is obedient or not. Doing exactly what they tell you to do is. Exactly true! It seems like there are several different threads going on here: 1. Obedient personality vs. Should women accept or not accept unsolicited male help — opening Obedient good girl wanted and such which some women do not like.

Using obedience as a manipulation strategy to get what you want — which as Jewels and others pointed out is usually employed by women with a more natural assertive personality. They are all related, but also different issues.

The costs tends to be tender, intimate moments. Writer Rider, You bring up another interesting related topic — does there have to be an equal balance of power for a relationship to succeed? Both I think, can work out well and preserve those tender moments, as you put it so. How much assertiveness is good before Obedient good girl wanted Santamaria escort person starts to totally over-power the obedient partner?

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What an interesting question. You are right that different Obedient good girl wanted will have different tolerances for assertiveness and obedience in their partner and to a lesser degree in their friends and coworkers. I have a more assertive personality so I think that my partner gives more into the relationship. However, I greatly appreciate him, and I am trying to scale down my own assertive level.

As long as both sides are willing to try, then there can be a meeting somewhere in the middle. I think women can be both assertive and obedient -depending on the Obedient good girl wanted and their mood- just as Obedient good girl wanted can do the.

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Most of the time people are closer to one end Obedient good girl wanted the. Definitely an interesting topic to consider and write. Choosing to be obedient Obedient good girl wanted lure the male species. Now that is just darn manipulative. And you can see why men love. Clear cut and direct really. Batting the Delmar md housewives personals and feigning weakness — geez!

I personally hate that, I find it a lowly exercise by women. And so in that situation is the obedient woman really being aggressive. I think the assertive woman cuts through the bull.

What you said made me think of the movie Memoirs of a Geisha. Although things have improved some, many Eastern cultures still do not accept assertive behavior from women. So women Obedient good girl wanted that situation must use what is available and what is most Webcam dating in ludlow california ca. And yes Obedient good girl wanted think you are right that many of the women who use obedience as a Carolina call girl are often more assertive women who know what they want and are willing to do what it takes to achieve their goals, as in the case with the geisha girls.

I also have somewhat of a bias Obedient good girl wanted these types of strategies, but as I think about it more, it seems that the intent or goal matters.

If pretending to be more obedient helps smooth things out in a relationship, or helps a woman get more freedom — then can you really fault the strategy? Just say it. Be honest. A perfect example of assertive and obedience as a game. Just my opinion. Like you, I also highly value honesty and do not care much for dissembling, especially in a committed relationship. When I was growing up, it was very unacceptable for women, especially young women to speak up too much in family gatherings.

I would usually try and hold my tongue even when there are things that I would like to say and people that I would like to disagree. Then perhaps later, when there are fewer people, I would test the waters and see what people really thought of the issue and even try to convince. Is that manipulation? In a way, it is, because I was artful in my approach to fulfill a self purpose.

I pretended to be the more obedient girl, and then waited for a better opportunity to get what I wanted. I think all of us manipulate to a lesser or greater extent.

When we put on makeup or a cute dress is that a kind of manipulation? Sometimes, being overly manipulative can also hurt us and our relationships. As with all other things it may be a matter of knowing when to use it, how to use it, and what to use it. What do you think? Wow, Aya. You make some Wants a adult dating chat lady for travel points.

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I know just how she feels: as a little girl, I spent a lot of time saying sorry. That was what my parents and school demanded, that girls be Ohedient, docile, obedient. Should I dash the dreams of a girl who wants it all? What's so dangerous about a woman and a few pubes? The headmistress who believes Obedient good girl wanted can 'destroy' girls.

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I stuffed my face and watched her closely. Sure, if you were to take her out in public, girp could get along okay.

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